Hey there…..are you having any problems and you are thinking of giving up?
Well I just have the perfect advice to give to you
I am Beatrice Dube, aged 22; born on the 12th of November 1994 and currently
finishing up my studies at Solusi University majoring in English and
Communication Studies. Ok so let’s talk about life in general,
everyone has had their good times and bad times, but we are mostly going to dwell
on the bad times we go through. I am here to reassure you not to give up,
no matter how bad the situation is , soldier on; everything happens for a good
reason. The fact that you are a girl or you are boy, rich or poor, educated or not,
you single or taken, it’s all for a good cause, never give up because of the
condition you are in…
I personally have gone through hell, and back… it’s never rosey; storms will
always come, but I am here to tell you that, be grateful for those storms, for they
make you stronger and a better person. I won’t lie and say I have been brought
up in a family where I starved or struggled to get an education because indeed I
have been brought up in a good family. I have never slept on an empty stomach.
Neither have I ever been chased away from school due to lack of payment. I’m
healthy and fit and I am in the process of completing my degree. I’m very much
grateful to my parents.
You should also know that people have diverse characters, and it’s not everyone
who has worthy intentions. Some will only be there so that you become their
stepping stone to another level. Some will only be around, because you will be
beneficial to them. Some will just come and test the waters and some you are
going to be very good friends with but at the end they will nibble you…be ready for all.
Types of people. Ask for knowledge from God to know who is right and wrong.
Whatever you go through, know it’s all happening for a good reason, don’t cry
0ver people who have left you or betrayed you. They came in your life to teach
you that never trust completely and be careful of the people you associate
with. After the painful harrowing experience you go through, you will know for
sure the kind of people to deal with for without those people that hurt you, you
can never know the right people and their traits but instead you will keep
befriending, loving the wrong people. My fellow friends it’s never going to be
easy. Prepare for all the storms that are yet to come, be grateful for them,
embrace them and fight with God’s aid. Whether it’s financial, social, even
marital problems. Just know that it’s all for a good cause. Don’t get me wrong – I’m not saying be confined with where you are or what you have. I’m saying, you
are in that position for a reason. Ask for God’s guidance and never
complain…whatever body shape, face, clothes, food you have to be
grateful- never complain, but all you can do is thank God for what u have and
ask for more…..
Okay friends, bottom line is be grateful for every problem you go through, for
they are eye openers to what’s yet to come. Imagine if you have been through a lot,
you are guaranteed that you can fight any battle that comes, even in the
future because you now know the ‘good and bad people’ and the ‘good and bad
situations.
God uses dissatisfaction as a tool to move us to greater things and higher
ground. I am grateful for my problems because I’m a better person now, with more
knowledge about life and its different facades. I’m not saying glitches are not
going to come-anomalies are on their way but I’m very much prepared. With God
by my side, I will be able to knock down every problem. Do the
same…never give up on life or anythng…embrace your problems and overthrow
them…never give up!!! Have a purpose in life, never hold grudges…be good J
