Health beyond dieting, are you living a healthy life or you’re trying to diet whilst you’re following a bad lifestyle?
Did you make a health goal last year on how to stick to a diet and lose some weight once and for all? And now its almost past quarter part of the year, have you broken those resolutions – and maybe felt that you’ve failed yet again? If so, don’t beat yourself up. The problem isn’t that you lack self-discipline. It’s that dieting simply doesn’t work.
Diets typically ask you to give up the foods you love: rich desserts, ice cream, comforting potato chips, juicy burgers. These are the foods most of us crave; they’re hard to pass up even when you’re not dieting. But when you deprive yourself of the foods you really want, your food cravings only get stronger and it becomes nearly impossible to resist.
Studies of animals’ eating behaviors have highlighted something very important that is also true in humans. Sugar appears to have addictive effects on animals but it is not the mere exposure to sugar that leads to addiction. Instead, researchers found that the key is giving animals sugar, then taking it away. When animals are deprived of their sugar solution for part of the day, they will binge on it when it is returned. After they no longer have access to sugar, the animals experience withdrawal-like symptoms.
For humans, just as for animals, depriving yourself of sweet, salty or fatty foods is what sets you up for cravings. Not eating those foods causes stress that then leads you to soothe yourself by bingeing on them. This is the story you know: Dieting doesn’t work, and deprivation is exactly what makes diets so unsuccessful.
We live in a world that constantly encourages us to eat, drink and snack. Your local mall probably has a food court that offers a wide array of smells and tastes. The aroma of cinnamon buns or buttered popcorn seems to be piped into every store going for a ridiculous prices which can be hard as the organic food stalls will be on the high side. Meanwhile, out on the street or at home watching TV, you are bombarded with tantalizing ads for refreshing sodas and chicken & chips. In Africa, the food and beverage industry spends over a million on advertising.
Food is in your face all day long. It’s very easy to get hooked into eating automatically, without thinking. The abundance can trigger the desire to eat when you’re not physically hungry, to eat more than your body needs or to eat certain kinds of food because they’re just so appealing. The availability and advertising of food forces you to constantly check yourself and inhibit the desire to eat.
This is harder for some people than for others. Many people who struggle with food and eating have reward deficiency syndrome. If you have RDS, the part of your brain that deals with impulsivity, emotion regulation and decision making may be impaired. This makes it harder for you to resist temptation.
Just being exposed to food cues such as commercials can activate the part of your brain that motivates you to eat and causes cravings. When your brain is activated from food cues, dopamine is released – making you feel better even before you eat and motivating you to eat more. And, in a cruel twist, this is especially true when you’ve been depriving yourself of foods you like. As you can see, dieting in an environment of food abundance just sets you up for failure.
So, if dieting isn’t the way to manage your relationship with food, what is? The trick is to move your focus away from the number on the scale or your body’s size and shape, and toward nourishing your body and enjoying the experience of eating. This may seem like mission impossible. Maybe you worry that if you start letting yourself enjoy the food you eat, you’ll gain more weight or binge even more. But is what you’ve been doing really working?
Research shows that it is possible to truly nurture yourself by eating. When you slow down to savor your food, you may find that you don’t want to eat as much of it. When you notice how you feel after eating, you may find yourself longing for new and different foods – ones that make you feel refreshed and energized. Remember that eating is meant to nourish your body, mind and spirit. You deserve to eat foods that give you real pleasure.
If you have struggled with food and body image issues for some time, you may need help getting started. Maybe try a professional or someone who is not from your circle because you might fall back again. Don’t give up just because I’m recommending that you not go on yet another fad diet. Look for the actual help you need. Do you need support for exercising? Do you need to see a therapist about emotional issues related to your eating? Are you struggling with food addiction? If so, reach out for the help and support you need and stick with a realistic plan and you will accomplish your 2017 goals – without dieting!
Eve Mary Doma